Good is a point of view, Anakin.

Supreme Chancellor: “Remember back to your early teachings. ‘All who gain power are afraid to lose it.’ Even the Jedi.”
Anakin Skywalker: “The Jedi use their power for good.”
Supreme Chancellor: “Good is a point of view, Anakin.”
Star Wars III: Revenge of the Sith

 

OK, the Supreme Chancellor is a bit twisted in his interpretation of things, to be sure, but still here are a few good things I’m thankful for today:

  • The weather lately has been so pleasant for walking to work in, for sitting on the patio, for roaming the neighborhood
  • The school year is coming to an end again for Padawan Learner. The more he attends, the more I enjoy his breaks from the daily go-go-go of early up, early out, perpetually sleep-deprived teenager
  • Padawan Learner’s land-speeder is continuing to hold it together. We just need it to get to June…
  • Our tickets to visit Canada are purchased, 2 of our 3 passport renewals have been completed (last one went in today), and the time is sure to come faster than we can even expect
  • We have a quickie trip back to Michigan planned in the near future. It will be wonderful to see some old friends and family again.
  • We’re all healthy. This really should be first. I’m coming to realize more and more that good health is paramount.
  • Dad Windu is still one of my favorite people..
  • Padawan Learner is more interesting than exasperating these days. They really do grow up given enough time (and with a lot of tongue biting on everyone’s part)
  • Shmi Skywalker, aka my mom, tells me that she’s making two trips out this summer, one with my brother, Plo Koon, and another with my sister, Kit Fisto. Neither have been here before.
  • DW’s sister (Padme Amidala) and her son (also known as PW’s nemesis during their early years, Sebulba) are also planning a visit.
  • My Fox Barrel Pacific Pear cider is utterly delicious and doesn’t give me a tummy ache.
  • Padawan Learner received two awards from a couple of his classes for exceptional progress and going above and beyond in the class.
  • DW and I were able to roam about a construction site nearby. That’s always a good time, and I always learn something new. This one showed several layers of historic road that was quite interesting – old tram lines still in place, filled over and covered by a brick road, covered by multiple layers of asphalt.
  • Both of the cats finally seem to understand that going out on the patio means staying WITHIN the patio border and not over onto the rubber decking. This makes their excursions outside with us much more relaxing.
  • I’ve finished two interesting books this week – always a highlight for me.
  • Qui-Gon Jinn sent a Facebook message to say she’s heading out our way for a graduation party, so we might be able to grab a bit of time together that weekend.
  • And much, much more. I could probably make an equally long list of complaints, but I choose not to focus on those so I will not.

    The situation is more dangerous than the Senator will admit.

    Obi-Wan Kenobi: ”Our presence here will be invisible, M’Lady. I can assure you.”
    Captain Typho: ”I’m Captain Typho of her majesty’s security service. Queen Jamilla has been informed of your assignment. I am very grateful you are here, Master Kenobi. The situation is more dangerous than the Senator will admit.”
    Star Wars II: Attack of the Clones

    Dad Windu and I, as not to be left behind all alone, headed off to Tucson, AZ to visit his parents who were over-wintering there and get in a bit more Old West history under our tourquoise-encrusted, over-sized, yeah-these-aren’t-to-touristy-right? silver belt buckles. Despite it being COLD there much of the time, we had a lovely time dodging tourists in Tombstone – the historical museum is quite good, by the way, even if the town itself is a collossal waste of time. The drive from Tucson to Tombstone is quite pretty, with lots of long and winding roads through both desert and high mountain passes. Our little rental speeder with approximately 2.9 gungan-power didn’t enjoy the drive much, but we sure did.

    We took a roundabout way back and stayed over in Sierra Vista so that we could visit the Military History Museums located within the Fort Huachuca Army Base - only to realize that our rental car company messed up our paperwork so we couldn’t enter the base. In fact, we were technically driving illegally as the rental agent put down the wrong experation date – for the day before we were there! And let me tell you, Fort Huachuca is the ONLY reason to be in Sierra Vista that I could find. It’s one giant ode to Big Box stores and almost every possible National chain. After a bit of hunting and pecking, we did find a delicious, local Mexican restaurant – La Casita – and cute little coffee shop – Gelato Java Stop – where the owner messed up my order a little bit but was so nice and friendly that I didn’t even tell her.

    Meeting the receptionist at the The Sierra Vista Convention and Visitors Bureau, however, was worth the lackluster overnight stay, she told us about a few local ghost towns (including which ones required a 4×4 to reach), great restaurants which sadly we didn’t follow up on because we were sooo full from our late lunch at La Casita that we didn’t even want any dinner that night, and even more about the museums at Fort Huachuca. You know, so that we really, really wanted to see them the next day… only to find out that we couldn’t. Grrrr.

    On our way back to AZ, we backtracked a bit and stopped to see the ghost town of Fairbank, the closest railstation to Tombstone and several other local mining towns on its way to Tucson and points further west. This really got DW pumped, as it was certainly a place that his Old West “friends” – Virgil and Wyatt Earp, Doc Holiday, and Major Clum to name a few – would have passed through on their travels. There are only a few buildings left, but we roamed around the area for several hours visiting the very untouristy burial grounds atop a high hill with a spectacular, clear view of the surrounding shrub-lands,

    the town remnants – please note the sign propped up against one of the buildings – love the quotes around DANGER by the way,

    the crumbling rail depot next to the converted rails-to-trails recreational path, and the San Pedro River which was, of course, key to the survival and location of the town.

      You’re focusing on the negative, Anakin. Be mindful of your thoughts.

      Jar Jar Binks: “Mesa busten wit happiness seein Yousa again, Annie..”
      Anakin Skywalker: “She hardly even recognised me, Jar Jar. I’ve thought about her every day since we parted… She’s forgotten me completely
      Jar Jar Binks: “Shesa happy. Happier den mesa see-en her in longo time.”
      Obi-Wan Kenobi: “You’re focusing on the negative, Anakin. Be mindful of your thoughts. She was pleased to see us. Now let’s check the security.”

      Star Wars II: Attack of the Clones

      We arrived to 53 very cool degrees, but it was almost midnight so no big deal, right?

      Pfft. Next day we sight-saw in rain clouds and 45 degree weather, made an evening grocery run at 37 F, and woke up today to sun (thankfully!) and a frigid 32F.

      I plan on lodging a complaint with the Southern Arizona Tourist Board for Breech of Contract.

      Tucson = warm and sunny

        I don’t like just waiting here for something to happen to her.

        Obi-Wan: “Captain Typho has more than enough men downstairs. No assassin will try that way. Any activity up here?”
        Anakin: “Quiet as a tomb. I don’t like just waiting here for something to happen to her.”
        Star Wars II: Attack of the Clones

        Please forgive the crazy delay. I popped in today and noticed that my last post was on July 4th. A month and a half. Geez.

        So, you see here’s the thing. I got a job. A full-time job. A really full-time, on my feet all day long on a concrete floor job. A this was supposed to be a part-time, up-to-20 hours a week, filler position job, but after six days spread out over two weeks I was offered the position of store manager on July 8. A full-time, at least 40 hours a week job. Well, holy cow. I said yes, took over on July 9, and it’s been a crazy rollercoaster ever since. Have I mentioned that it’s been way too many years since that kind of non-stop on-the-go activity has been a regular part of my life? I have learned a new level of both exhaustion and sore foot pain.

        On the up side, I love this job. Love, love, love it. It’s fun, it’s positive, and it’s close enough to walk or bike to. The women I work with are fun and hardworking (a great combo), the challenges are enough to keep my brain pumping along, and the feedback from my employers and customers regarding the changes I’ve been implementing have been uniformly positive.

        Many other things have been happening as well these past couple of weeks.

        Padawan Learner turned 16 this summer, is driving around town by himself, started back to school at 5 out of the 8 periods (and is picking up a 6th period geometry class starting on Monday) and has been pleased with his newfound freedom. It’s a little weird, but we’re both enjoying the break from each other 24/7. He’s very 16, and I’m definitely a mom. Clashes have ensued. He’s talked about getting a job and working toward becoming independent sooner rather than later. It could be a good idea, but we’ll see how much effort he puts into meeting that goal. As you know quite well, there’s more to being a grownup than earning an income.

        PL went to two different camps this summer, a week long half day parkour camp in Boulder. So PL got to participate in one of his most favorite activities ever AND we got to visit with our nephew who just moved into the area a few months earlier. I think he enjoyed our visit too since he was forced to learn first hand about lots of great restaurants in the area. PL also went to a week long overnight camp (his first experience with that type of program) for trampoline and double mini in Michigan, so Dad Windu and I were able to visit some old friends from different parts of Michigan – including some that we hadn’t been able to see for years.

        To round the summer out, our niece married, rather unexpectedly but apparently happily, and we were all able to gather once again as an extended family (minus 3) for a long weekend. But it seems that with joy comes pain, and this weekend was no different – DW’s co-worker was in a motorcycle-car accident on the way home the same day we left for MI and was airlifted to a hospital near us. Thankfully he had on his leathers and a helmet (a rarity in Iowa). Still, he has two broken legs, a broken arm, and bleeding in the brain (now stopped), but he survived the first night (a major event) and is on the mend. He is such a sweetheart and such a fighter. I’ve been able to go sit with him in the mornings while his wife gets their four kids off on two different school busses (two hours apart!) so that he doesn’t have to wake up alone. The good drugs are giving us really fun conversations. It’s so nice seeing his bruises go down day after day, but it’s heartbreaking to see the pain that goes along with all the things that will ultimately make him better – multiple surgeries and their subsequent swelling most of all. Send any extra good thoughts along to JerBear.

        So there you have it. Sorry for making you wait for an update.

          It won’t take long to recharge, but this is a lesson I hope you’ve learned, my young Padawan.

          Obi-Wan: “Sorry, Master, the water fried my weapon.”
          Qui-Gon: “You forgot to turn your power off again, didn’t you?”
          Obi-Wan nods sheepishly.
          Qui-Gon: “It won’t take long to recharge, but this is a lesson I hope you’ve learned, my young Padawan.”
          Obi-Wan : “Yes, Master.”

          Star Wars I: The Phantom Menace

          Still alive and still in the middle of the moving drama. Here’s the situation in a nutshell:

          • House was put up on the market in mid-March
          • Come to find out, the realtor’s assistant works for the devil, the Galactic Empire or some other evil monstrosity like Sprawl-Mart and did a major f*ck-up on the listing – 4 days late, crappy pictures, pathetic blurb, etc.
          • Realtor’s assistant apparently does not know how to use voicemail as messages were never returned before 48 hours, if at all.
          • Realtor did not check assistant’s “work” until after week two of the listing when we had not gotten a single showing.
          • Realtor assistant has now been fired/’quit’.
          • Price on house was dropped twice.
          • House finally sold last Thursday – yeah – but we’re taking a major bath on the price – boo. I’m walking away getting less than I paid for the place 12 years ago – after spending 40K on home improvements these past couple of years. Double boo. I spent most of the 29th in tears.
          • BUT it is sold and we’re finally going to be together again. Quadruple yeah!
          • I’ve  shed about 1/2 of our furniture and all of our yard/garden/garage items. House and garage look like they’ve been robbed. Apartment will still look like a furniture store exploded inside it. It’s all about perspective.
          • We’re hoping to close by the end of the month.
          • I told Padawan Learner tonight, as we had a Mom’s dinner out, that he has given me the best Mother’s Day present ever in the way he has been handling this topsy-turvy, split household, back and forth to see Dad Windu, emotional roller-coaster of a move.

          If all goes well, I’ll be able to write again in complete sentences and whole paragraphs soon.

            Offhand, I’d say this mission is past the negotiation stage.

            “Offhand, I’d say this mission is past the negotiation stage.” – Obi-Wan Kenobi, Star Wars I: The Phantom Menace


            Because I know that you’ve all been losing sleep over the drama of my very exciting life, I’m happy to report that Dad Windu has received a job offer from a very good firm and will be starting within the month. Sadly, it will require a relocation several states away. Padawan Learner is, of course, taking this hardest as this is the only home he has ever known, but he is also being very understanding of the reason for this move. He has watched his dad do everything in his power to work a job search and keep us in the area, but he’s also aware that Michigan is just in a terrible state right now for DW’s line of work.

            We’re trying to find all the different ways possible to keep PL in touch with his friends, and we have committed to traveling back to MI as often as practicable to see our friends and family. On FireFly Mom’s recommendation, we have given the task of hunting out interesting things to do and see in our new town to PL. I know he’ll do a wonderful job of it and is sure to find things that I would have never even thought twice about.

            Initially, we’re going to be moving from a 3 bedroom, 2.5 bath, 1800 sq ft home to an 865 sq ft apartment. Have you stopped laughing yet? While DW works these last two weeks (he’s currently a contract employee for his old firm) getting things re-allocated to other staff members, tying up loose ends, and doing some last-minute training (and then coming home to do last minute home improvement projects), I’ve been culling the house for things that are not absolutely, positively necessary. Anyone interested in a 4-piece, king-size sleigh bed set with matching night stand, armoire, and dresser with tri-fold mirror? What’s that? Why, yes, they are all gigantic pieces! If only I could go back and have a talk with my younger self…

              Scoundrel? Scoundrel? I like the sound of that.

              Han Solo: Hey, Your Worship, I’m only trying to help.
              Princess Leia: Would you please stop calling me that?
              Han Solo: Sure, Leia.
              Princess Leia: You make it so difficult sometimes.
              Han Solo: I do, I really do. You could be a little nicer, though. Come on, admit it. Sometimes you think I’m all right.
              Princess Leia: Occasionally, maybe… when you aren’t acting like a scoundrel.
              Han Solo: Scoundrel? Scoundrel? I like the sound of that.

              Star Wars V: The Empire Strikes Back

              My scoundrel is in his 4th hour of interviews, as I type. I – obviously – have the better end of the deal here.

              • Vanilla latte. Check.
              • Squishy chair. Check.
              • Chocolate croissant. Check.
              • Scrolling around the internet. Check.
              • Free lunch with Dad Windu and corporate representative. Check.
              • Not having to answer hard, uncomfortable, or annoying questions that will dictate my future bread-buying power. Double check.

              Yesterday after the plane landed, we covered all the basics – rental car, hotel, and office building reconnoiter. After stalking finding the company’s location, we checked into a nearby apartment building – extremely cool and 3 times as expensive as my current mortage payment – and then got a very late lunch. May I just take a moment and tell you how much I love, love, love a plate of Pesto Chicken Pasta done well? Holy distended stomach, Bat Man, that stuff was divine!

              Oops, running out of battery. Time to go retrieve the charging cord.