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The three habits that lead to success are: Patience, Application, and Vision.

Take care: The person who will tell others' faults to you - will tell yours to others.

It is always better to be underestimated.

There are three things that are better than riches: Health, Freedom, and Honor.

Think swiftly, speak softly, act wisely.

"The world is neither Scottish, English, nor Irish, neither French, Dutch, nor Chinese, but human, and each nation is only the partial development of a universal humanity." - James Grant on founding the National Association for the Vindication of Scottish Rights, 1862

All from: The Book of Celtic Wisdom

The Force is what gives a Jedi his power.

“The Force is what gives a Jedi his power. It’s an energy field created by all living things. It surrounds us and penetrates us. It binds the galaxy together.” – Obi-Wan Kenobi, Star Wars IV: A New Hope

 

We hear a lot these days about kids needing higher-order thinking skills, teamwork skills and study skills. As a homeschooling mom of an only child, I used to hear a whole lot about kids needing social skills — that elusive “socialization” argument. I agree that kids need to think logically, work effectively as part of a team, learn to process information easily, and form working and social relationships with other people not exactly like themselves. What I don’t hear much about from educational think tanks, teachers and the average parent on the street is ethical skills. In my opinion, without ethical skills, nothing else matters.

Ethics teach us to think outside of ourselves, outside of our own needs and desires, and outside of what might be easiest, fastest or cheapest. The abilty to think, and then act, ethically allows us to look for the positive and negative impact of our actions on the people and world around us. Such understanding requires us to realize that - sometimes - there are multiple, conflicting options and that sadly the lesser of two evils really might be the best solution. 

Without ethical skills, other skills can even prove a detriment to the individual and socity. A person with excellent higher-order thinking skills but no ethical basis has the makings of a truly fantastic criminal. Teamwork without adequate ethical insight means that poor decisions can simply be performed efficiently and with everyone’s assistance, not that the team considered the relative merit and weight of each person’s argument or idea. Study skills (commonly meant as: know the material – or appear to know the material - for good grades and high stakes tests) without ethics as the educational backbone ensure that cheating, cribbing notes and plagerism will all maintain their usefulness and popularity for years to come.

Furthermore, ethical behavior has everything to do with social skills training. Learning to “get along” in a group often means learning to keep your head down, to avoid appearing, thinking or acting different from the other people in your group and to not question the group’s leader, the group’s actions or the group’s norms. It has more to do with being a good member than with being a good or useful person. My favorite online dictionary, Merriam-Webster, defines socialize (a transitive verb) as: to make social; especially to fit or train for a social environment. Note that it is defined as a social environment, not necessarily a desirable environment. Even gangs and cults have social rules and mores that must be followed. This can be further emphasized by looking at the intransitive verb, socialization: to participate actively in a social group. Social (if you follow the link) being defined as involving allies or confederates, first definition.

So, in this case, I define the Force as ethical skills and abilities, and it does, indeed, give a Jedi his power.

May the Force be with you (or Getting past the “Force” issue)

“May the Force be with you.” – frequent quote from all six Star Wars films (and surely, by now, a truly uncountable number of books, video games and toys)

 

My good and wise friend, Obi-Wan, talks a lot about the Force. If you haven’t watched the movies you’ll have no idea of what I’m referring to so go watch the original trilogy right now.

Excellent. What does the Force mean for the writing within this little blog? Well, first off, we have to all understand that the Force isn’t real. Star Wars isn’t real. The Galactic Empire isn’t real. Yes, that’s right. The six movies are fiction, boiled from the creative juices of Mr. George Lucas, and are not based on reality. Take a few deep breaths if you must first come to grips with that. I’ve heard about some folks that have taken a few too many steps into that murky realm of Wanting-It-To-Be-So but that’s not where I’m coming from. Fear not, I’m just using the movies’ term to bridge between our real life and the Obi-Mom Kenobi theme.

Having said that, I see myself possibly using the term Force to describe such higher-order ethical ideals as beneficence, nonmaleficence, fidelity, responsibility, integrity, justice, and respect. Those wonderful ideals we should all be living towards, although few generally do. Perhaps I’ll head off into a scientific direction and use it to describe the immutable laws of nature or specific scientific theories. I may use the term to encompass a large and varied collection of ideas depending on the situation, but if I do I promise to give sufficient warning to my then current bent.

Either way, there are some truly excellent Obi-Wan quotes from the films which I will borrow and use without any sense of guilt or shame (having given proper credit and identification as required by law and personal integrity). Some quotes will express my hopes and beliefs and some will peek into my deepest fears about the role of mother, teacher and guide to a bright, young man of the 21st Century.